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How to convince a girl to sleep with you

We've all seen that gorgeous girl in the coffee shop, that stunning woman in the shopping mall, that breathtaking young girl in the cocktail bar -- and perhaps thought "if I just had the right thing to say!"

Maybe you go home kicking yourself for not trying, or maybe you've just given up on this sort of thing, deciding that "only rich, good looking guys have a chance with her", or worse "that kind of stuff doesn't happen in real life".



But still, maybe if you just had the perfect line, she'd be yours.

You've Got it All Wrong

The truth is, all of these mindsets are completely wrong. Yes, this kind of thing does happen. No it doesn't only happen to good looking, rich guys -- and perhaps most surprisingly, exactly what you say doesn't matter all that much.

Take the exchange at the top of the article (yes, I really said that to a girl).

Why didn't I get slapped? Why didn't she tell all her friends I was a creepy weirdo? Why did she give me her number within 5 minutes of meeting me?

I'm sure you've seen or experienced something like this before, where some guys seem to be able to "get away with" anything.

This is the key -- to be that guy. Anyone can come up with a clever pickup line. Very few people can say whatever they want and still get a girl into bed.

Starting a Conversation with a Girl

Here is a good opener during the day: "excuse me, I thought you were really cute and I had to come meet you"

Here is a good opener at bars/parties: "hi, I'm Matt"

I've picked up models with both these lines. So problem solved, right?

Hopefully you can see by now that simply having the right line isn't going to make girls jump into bed with you. If you're thinking "well, that wouldn't work for me", well, you're probably right. If you're thinking "well what do I say next?", then you still haven't got it yet.

Get Out of Your Own Way

Think back to the two lines at the top. Why can I "get away with" something like that, but you most likely can't?

The answer is that your beliefs about sex, women, dating and yourself are holding you back. They come across in the way you act, the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you make eye contact and the things that pop into your head -- and they are nearly impossible to hide.

Do you believe with 100% conviction that women love sex and most will have sex on the first night they meet you or on the first date? Do you believe with 100% conviction that you're the kind of guy that will bring that out in them?

My guess is you don't. In fact, you may be questioning whether those things are true at all.

Truth be told, it's a self-fullfilling prophecy. Here's an example from last week to highlight this.

How to Lead it From Meeting to Sex

Last Thursday I started a conversation with a very attractive girl at a local bar. About 5 minutes in she got dragged away by her friends, as attractive girls often do, and we had to swap numbers at meet later.


On Sunday we met for a drink at a restaurant bar near my place. As it turns out, she's also very smart, composed and quietly confident -- the type most guys would label as a "quality" girl, who might need to be taken on expensive dates or "probably wouldn't have sex outside of a relationship".

Nevertheless, after a drink of too, I suggested we stop by my place to see my Foam Roller (if you can think of a lamer excuse to pull a girl home, please let me know), and we head back.

Long story short, 15 minutes later her legs are up over my shoulders with her boots still on her feet.

Becoming "That Guy"

The moral of the story here is that if you actually believe 100% that you deserve hot girls, that hot girls will want to meet you and have sex with you, and that this is all normal to you, it will ooze out through every aspect of your being -- and hot girls will instantly pick up on that.

And when you believe that with complete conviction, everything you say will automatically be the right thing.

So whether you're talking about fisting and Lubriderm, or the weather, the girl will be attracted.

As with most things, the truth is generally simple but never easy. You can't just snap your fingers and become the guy who knows without a shadow of a doubt that he's attractive to women, and acts accordingly.

But you can certainly get there.

Start by approaching girls with the lines given earlier in the article, and come to terms with the fact that you're not going to fuck every hot girl you talk to starting on day one. It's okay. Any change worth making takes time -- and no pickup line will instantly fix that for you.

Go out there, give it a shot and try to hold those beliefs in your mind. They're true to the extent that you think they are.

Cheers

How to overcome shyness inorder to talk to a girl

Most girls enjoy outgoing guys. Some are attracted to shy guys out of nurturing instinct or such, but rarely does a girl look at a guy and get attracted because he's so shy.


Outgoing guys are in high demand because they're not intimidated by girls. They're fun to be around and not boring. It's easy to relax around someone who is confident.

There's a secret you may not know though... Girls are just like guys, except they have vaginas and like shiny things. They snort, spit, poo, fart, pick their nose and have just as many insecurities as guys - often many more so.

It doesn't matter how popular and beautiful a girl is, beneath the surface they're all the same aside from personality differences. Even a tough "I don't care" type girl will have many of the same worries and concerns a prissy socialite has.

Perhaps knowing this will help you be more outgoing with girls. You have nothing to lose. Girls are not magical beings.
You can research how to approach girls online and find some really good info. It's all about being assertive, open, direct and unafraid. Girls respond extremely favorably to confidence.

Try and put yourself in situations where you'll be surrounded by girls/women in a non threatening cooperative environment. Like a cooking class.

Sorry for the ramble, but I used to be shy before - until I realized it was the most useless thing in the world. It had been with me from my upbringing and it took a conscious change of mind to drop that frame of mind. So good luck

15 Sure Ways To Attract A Girl

No introductions here. Just 15 straight forward ways to get you dream girl.

1. Any time you are in a group with other men, you should take on the role of “leader.” You should be the decisive decision maker of the group. You should be the one that other men turn to for guidance.

2. Although looks are not as important as most guys think, it is still important to always present your best self. This means you should be well-groomed, fit, healthy looking, and make an effort to dress in a way that shows you have a high level of social intelligence.

3. You should present “alpha” body language and posture. This means take up space, walk with your head up high, shoulders back, and give off the appearance of being a man who knows where he is going in life.

4. You should be able to read the verbal cues a woman is giving you. Women are attracted to men who understand them, so if you want to attract a woman, pay attention to what her words, body, and subliminal signs are telling you.

5. Act assertive with women. Women want a guy who goes after what he wants. So if you feel like you want to kiss a woman that you’ve been talking to… do it. Don’t ever wait for a woman’s permission to kiss her. Women are attracted to men who take charge sexually.

6. Tease and flirt with women. One way to attract women fast is to flirt with her. There is something that turns women on by flirting.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to attract women. These sorts of techniques show a woman that you understand her, and that you are experienced with women.


8. Don’t be afraid to touch a woman physically. Human being are extremely attracted to the touch of other humans.

9. PUSH/PULL. Women like to chase a man. So when displaying your attraction, its always best to display a little bit of attraction, and then pull it away. Always leave a woman wondering how attracted you are to her.

10. Cocky and Funny. Women like a guy who is confident and fun. Most guys need to dial it up a little bit. This becomes cocky and funny. This means you sort of present an overly confident humor.


11. Get her to an emotional state. Another way to attract women is to get her feeling positive emotions around you. The easiest way to do this is to talk about topics that bring emotions out of woman.


12. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.

13. If you must compliment a woman, if you want to know how to attract women with compliments, you need to understand that women are tired of hearing about how pretty they are. The best kind of compliments is compliments that involve unique things you see about her personality.

14. Another good to for attracting beautiful women is to use negs. Negs are a bit controversial but they involve giving a woman playful insults. The effect of this is that the woman doesn’t feel like she is above you anymore. This is a tactic best used to attract extremely beautiful women.

15. Be direct. Women like man who is not afraid to go after what he wants. So if you are sexually attracted to a woman, early on in the conversation you must make this clear. The best way to do this is make a reference to that lets her know this. For instance, you could say “that thing you did with your hair was just so fucking sexy.”

This should give you a fairly good idea on how to attract women. Like I said, the first thing a guy must do is come to the understanding that it is not just money, looks, and fame that attract women. It’s a combination of many different things, that all men are capable of doing.
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