How to convince a girl to sleep with you

We've all seen that gorgeous girl in the coffee shop, that stunning woman in the shopping mall, that breathtaking young girl in the cocktail bar -- and perhaps thought "if I just had the right thing to say!"

Maybe you go home kicking yourself for not trying, or maybe you've just given up on this sort of thing, deciding that "only rich, good looking guys have a chance with her", or worse "that kind of stuff doesn't happen in real life".

But still, maybe if you just had the perfect line, she'd be yours.

You've Got it All Wrong

The truth is, all of these mindsets are completely wrong. Yes, this kind of thing does happen. No it doesn't only happen to good looking, rich guys -- and perhaps most surprisingly, exactly what you say doesn't matter all that much.

Take the exchange at the top of the article (yes, I really said that to a girl).

Why didn't I get slapped? Why didn't she tell all her friends I was a creepy weirdo? Why did she give me her number within 5 minutes of meeting me?

I'm sure you've seen or experienced something like this before, where some guys seem to be able to "get away with" anything.

This is the key -- to be that guy. Anyone can come up with a clever pickup line. Very few people can say whatever they want and still get a girl into bed.

Starting a Conversation with a Girl

Here is a good opener during the day: "excuse me, I thought you were really cute and I had to come meet you"

Here is a good opener at bars/parties: "hi, I'm Matt"

I've picked up models with both these lines. So problem solved, right?

Hopefully you can see by now that simply having the right line isn't going to make girls jump into bed with you. If you're thinking "well, that wouldn't work for me", well, you're probably right. If you're thinking "well what do I say next?", then you still haven't got it yet.

Get Out of Your Own Way

Think back to the two lines at the top. Why can I "get away with" something like that, but you most likely can't?

The answer is that your beliefs about sex, women, dating and yourself are holding you back. They come across in the way you act, the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you make eye contact and the things that pop into your head -- and they are nearly impossible to hide.

Do you believe with 100% conviction that women love sex and most will have sex on the first night they meet you or on the first date? Do you believe with 100% conviction that you're the kind of guy that will bring that out in them?

My guess is you don't. In fact, you may be questioning whether those things are true at all.

Truth be told, it's a self-fullfilling prophecy. Here's an example from last week to highlight this.

How to Lead it From Meeting to Sex

Last Thursday I started a conversation with a very attractive girl at a local bar. About 5 minutes in she got dragged away by her friends, as attractive girls often do, and we had to swap numbers at meet later.

On Sunday we met for a drink at a restaurant bar near my place. As it turns out, she's also very smart, composed and quietly confident -- the type most guys would label as a "quality" girl, who might need to be taken on expensive dates or "probably wouldn't have sex outside of a relationship".

Nevertheless, after a drink of too, I suggested we stop by my place to see my Foam Roller (if you can think of a lamer excuse to pull a girl home, please let me know), and we head back.

Long story short, 15 minutes later her legs are up over my shoulders with her boots still on her feet.

Becoming "That Guy"

The moral of the story here is that if you actually believe 100% that you deserve hot girls, that hot girls will want to meet you and have sex with you, and that this is all normal to you, it will ooze out through every aspect of your being -- and hot girls will instantly pick up on that.

And when you believe that with complete conviction, everything you say will automatically be the right thing.

So whether you're talking about fisting and Lubriderm, or the weather, the girl will be attracted.

As with most things, the truth is generally simple but never easy. You can't just snap your fingers and become the guy who knows without a shadow of a doubt that he's attractive to women, and acts accordingly.

But you can certainly get there.

Start by approaching girls with the lines given earlier in the article, and come to terms with the fact that you're not going to fuck every hot girl you talk to starting on day one. It's okay. Any change worth making takes time -- and no pickup line will instantly fix that for you.

Go out there, give it a shot and try to hold those beliefs in your mind. They're true to the extent that you think they are.

Cheers

How to overcome shyness inorder to talk to a girl

Most girls enjoy outgoing guys. Some are attracted to shy guys out of nurturing instinct or such, but rarely does a girl look at a guy and get attracted because he's so shy.

Outgoing guys are in high demand because they're not intimidated by girls. They're fun to be around and not boring. It's easy to relax around someone who is confident.

There's a secret you may not know though... Girls are just like guys, except they have vaginas and like shiny things. They snort, spit, poo, fart, pick their nose and have just as many insecurities as guys - often many more so.

It doesn't matter how popular and beautiful a girl is, beneath the surface they're all the same aside from personality differences. Even a tough "I don't care" type girl will have many of the same worries and concerns a prissy socialite has.

Perhaps knowing this will help you be more outgoing with girls. You have nothing to lose. Girls are not magical beings.
You can research how to approach girls online and find some really good info. It's all about being assertive, open, direct and unafraid. Girls respond extremely favorably to confidence.

Try and put yourself in situations where you'll be surrounded by girls/women in a non threatening cooperative environment. Like a cooking class.

Sorry for the ramble, but I used to be shy before - until I realized it was the most useless thing in the world. It had been with me from my upbringing and it took a conscious change of mind to drop that frame of mind. So good luck

15 Sure Ways To Attract A Girl

No introductions here. Just 15 straight forward ways to get you dream girl.

1. Any time you are in a group with other men, you should take on the role of “leader.” You should be the decisive decision maker of the group. You should be the one that other men turn to for guidance.

2. Although looks are not as important as most guys think, it is still important to always present your best self. This means you should be well-groomed, fit, healthy looking, and make an effort to dress in a way that shows you have a high level of social intelligence.

3. You should present “alpha” body language and posture. This means take up space, walk with your head up high, shoulders back, and give off the appearance of being a man who knows where he is going in life.

4. You should be able to read the verbal cues a woman is giving you. Women are attracted to men who understand them, so if you want to attract a woman, pay attention to what her words, body, and subliminal signs are telling you.

5. Act assertive with women. Women want a guy who goes after what he wants. So if you feel like you want to kiss a woman that you’ve been talking to… do it. Don’t ever wait for a woman’s permission to kiss her. Women are attracted to men who take charge sexually.

6. Tease and flirt with women. One way to attract women fast is to flirt with her. There is something that turns women on by flirting.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to attract women. These sorts of techniques show a woman that you understand her, and that you are experienced with women.

8. Don’t be afraid to touch a woman physically. Human being are extremely attracted to the touch of other humans.

9. PUSH/PULL. Women like to chase a man. So when displaying your attraction, its always best to display a little bit of attraction, and then pull it away. Always leave a woman wondering how attracted you are to her.

10. Cocky and Funny. Women like a guy who is confident and fun. Most guys need to dial it up a little bit. This becomes cocky and funny. This means you sort of present an overly confident humor.


11. Get her to an emotional state. Another way to attract women is to get her feeling positive emotions around you. The easiest way to do this is to talk about topics that bring emotions out of woman.


12. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.

13. If you must compliment a woman, if you want to know how to attract women with compliments, you need to understand that women are tired of hearing about how pretty they are. The best kind of compliments is compliments that involve unique things you see about her personality.

14. Another good to for attracting beautiful women is to use negs. Negs are a bit controversial but they involve giving a woman playful insults. The effect of this is that the woman doesn’t feel like she is above you anymore. This is a tactic best used to attract extremely beautiful women.

15. Be direct. Women like man who is not afraid to go after what he wants. So if you are sexually attracted to a woman, early on in the conversation you must make this clear. The best way to do this is make a reference to that lets her know this. For instance, you could say “that thing you did with your hair was just so fucking sexy.”

This should give you a fairly good idea on how to attract women. Like I said, the first thing a guy must do is come to the understanding that it is not just money, looks, and fame that attract women. It’s a combination of many different things, that all men are capable of doing.

Indian Girls For Friendship

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Why are Indian women so pretty and beautiful?

Indian girls are beautiful because they have the phenomenal ability to love selflessly.They value those whom they love more than anything else in the world even more than themselves .They combine all aspects of love within themselves they make ideal mothers ,wives ,sisters ,daughters and even if they are working and earning more money than the men.their humility ,sacrifice and dedication to their families and work sets them apart from anywhere else in the world.they are like the solid foundation on which our civilization is flourishing. Hats off to India and our women!


How to Impress a Beautiful Indian Girl?

It really depends on the culture and personality of the girl that you're trying to impress. However, there are many ways to impress an Indian girl. Starting a good conversation and smiling often can always win a girls attention. Let them know that you are interested in getting to know them and they will be just as interested back. Hold off on letting them know how beautiful, sexy, or attractive they are until much, much later in the conversation. You don't want them to feel uncomfortable, but rather pleased that someone is liking them for their personality first rather than looks.

Every Indian girl is beautiful in her own unique way, while it's true that beautiful women are found in every country of the world, there are a few that stand out from the crowd and produce a remarkably conspicuous amount beautiful women.

Indian girls are perfect blend of beauty and sexiness which is rare to find among other nations.

Indian girls are gifted with beauty . Make-up does add beauty to anyone , but it cannot change an ugly person to a beautiful person . It can only give refined looks . It cannot change a person's look all together . So, even if the person is wearing make-up and looks good , she will obviously look good (if not better) even without the make-up because she is naturally beautiful . Thus, Indian women are born beautiful . And it is genetic .

Oh, haven't u heard the song - "Who's the hottest girl in the world.. a desi girl.. a desi girl .. thumka laga ke she'll rock ur world .. a desi girl .. a desi girl .. "


One can find a sense of beauty in every aspect of India, right from the mesmerizing scenery to the age-old traditions of the country. The same can be said of beautiful Indian girls who have captivated the world with their charming beauty. Bollywood actresses like Aishwarya Rai Bacchan and more recently, Frieda Pinto have blown the world away with their exquisite allure.

Indian girls are gifted with an inexplicable charm. One can only try and pin it down to the exotic appeal or dusky complexion, but it remains mysterious to its very end. Indian women are a unique blend of culture and modernity and that’s what makes them so different from others. They have an innate sense of Indian-ness, yet they have also evolved with changing times. The same applies to their physical beauty as well. All Indian women are blessed with proto-typically Indian facial features which are only enhanced by the Western influence.


They were all very tall, very exotic, and very beautiful. They have beauty, class, values and morals and more than that they have intelligence. Its not just the the colour of their skin or there stunning dark hair but its the way they mix Indian and western styles to create something truly unique and special More white men find Indian girls attractive than they let on from what my friends say it is because of the religious or cultural differences but if you let that sort of thing to influence your opinion then your not true to what yourself.


If an Indian girl is beautiful, polite, clean in her behavior nobody can help falling for her. And Indian girls have it all. Usually white man think that Indian girls won't be good on bed. It's not like that. They don't get aggressive in our behavior on bed just because there is something in our genes that makes us respect their man. Indian girls know the limits. And they value our relations.


Indian girls are the most naturally beautiful women on the planet! The caramel colored skin is very sexy and the features and mannerisms are so very intriguing... :) I love their look; down to their hair, facial structure and beautiful range of brown skin tone.
Indian women know how to raise their children. It is because of the indian womans elegance, love and beauty that I would love to date an indian queen. Its not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. Its the fact that they come in all colors and shades. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing. Hopefully one day I will find my brown, virtuous indian woman who can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understand my struggles.


A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010):

"I am an Indian girl born and raised in Canada. From my experience, I have had a LOT of white guys attracted to/like me. The problem is that white guys (or any non-Indian race) assume that I wouldn't go out with them because of cultural differences or that my parents are too strict. Given that SOME Indian parents are strict, many (including my own) are quite liberal and embrace all cultures. Therefore, white guys (or other races) please don't be afraid to approach Indian girls :D. We are really friendly and have a lot to offer too:D Also I would like to add that many Indian girls are well educated, intelligent and career-oriented.. if you surround yourself with these types of girls than there can be an even stronger relationship... suddenly race takes a backseat to grace, intelligence and humility."

Indian girls are absolutely gorgeous. The refined features, stunning eyes, sexy bodies as well as the absolutely wonderful long and thick hair is a definite turn on. Every Indian girl is special in her own way. It is not a matter of skin color (although certain people obviously have their preferences)but the whole exotic (for us anyway)and very sexy package.

I think Indian girls are the sexiest in the world. Do you agree?

That's it for now. I will add more after some time. Come back again for more Indian girls for friendship.